In the Civil War, Union General McClellan had been so successful that he became afraid to risk failure. This made him far too cautious because he had a flawless image to maintain. He was proud, having never been humbled through defeat (McPherson, Battle Cry of Freedom, p 359, 365). This led to procrastination, failure to act. Similarly, the wicked slave was so afraid of failing that he refused to take a risk (Mt 25:26-28).
A better approach toward failure is to realize that “failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently” (Henry Ford). Thomas Edison said that his 1,000 or more failures to produce a light bulb showed him what not to do. It brought him closer to success. This is because “the person who really thinks learns quite as much from his failures as from his successes” (John Dewey). Hence, failure can contribute to future success whereas refusal to risk failure guarantees failure. As William Smithburg, former Quaker Oats Chairman put it, “If you’re not falling down, you’re not learning.” Those who take risks will fail (Jas 3:2). For instance, the apostle Peter learned an incredible lesson in humility through his failure in denying that he knew Christ (Mt 26:69-75).
Field Marshal Slim’s troops were soundly defeated in Burma during 1942. However, he realized that the only way forward for a humiliated leader is to “forget what lies behind and press forward” (Phil 3:13). We must remember what was learned from the failure but not allow ourselves to focus on our disappointment, regrets, or continue to question our ability. Failures are opportunities. Let’s see them as such and not be beaten down by them.
We may avoid enriching commitments because they are costly.
We need to increasingly be delivered from error, unnecessary evil, and the evil one.
by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
A ‘hopeless’ spouse doesn’t mean a hopeless marriage. Have you ever felt hopeless about your marriage improving because it seems that your spouse is unwilling to change? You don’t think your marriage can get better because you believe your spouse is hopelessly unwilling to change – and you assume that their changing is necessary for marital improvement to begin. That assumption is wrong.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Daily Christian Living is set up to be a daily two-minute Bible study on one of over 275 topics about how to live the Christian life. It includes passage insights from about 50 translations, top commentaries or language aides, quotes, and stories from famous people. All this is geared to answer the question, ‘How then, should I live?’ In two short minutes, you learn great things from the Bible that many people don’t know with wonderful applications about how to live.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Have you ever wondered how to get the most out of your Bible reading? Do you want deeper insight into the meaning of the Lord’s Prayer? This book covers five key ways of interpreting the Bible that will enrich your understanding of it. Many other ways to better understand the Bible are explained in an appendix.
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God’s 40 hints are taken from the Old Testament book, The Song of Songs. The Song depicts the kind of marital lovemaking the Lord wants His saved couples to experience. By looking at the key characteristics of marital sex the couple in the Song displays, we can understand what to do to vastly improve our own marital lovemaking.
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It is so easy to be insensitive to the very many ways we are rude to our spouse. Jesus said that the key problem in marriage is hardness of heart (Mt 19:8). This book addresses the great need to recognize many of the ways we are rude and gives us ideas for how to display better manners toward our spouse. It is vital that we improve our manners in marriage. Small changes can eventually have great results.
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Discover tools to answer many of the burning questions we all face each and everyday. It is not enough just to make a flippant decision on daily matters whether large or small. God has a specific plan for our life that involves listening to Him and making sound judgement.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
We know the enemy’s strategies for ruining our lives. He will attack our vulnerabilities, but if we can identify what those are and prepare ourselves, we may avoid ourselves and family through unnecessary pain and anguish.
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Too many people live their lives in a very general manner - believing that as long as they do “good” things and try their best they are fulfilling God’s plan for their life. However, that is not how Jesus lived, and it is not how we should live either. We are to be directed by the Spirit on a day in, day out basis.
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Instead of being timid, learn to be appropriately bold.