Fear is a natural response to perceived danger. Yet, ideally, fear can be overcome. For the Christian, fear is a drawing down of the sail in the sailboat that is our life with the result that we are unable to be borne along by God’s Spirit (WPNT note on Acts 20:20). It is failure to rely on God’s empowerment but, instead, relying on some other source (Ps 46:1-2, Message). It is a result of rowing, rather than sailing. Fear displays a weak hope (2 Cor 3:12, Lamsa).
We often overrate fear. It need not be incapacitating (2 Tim 1:7). If we focus on our fear, we can become irrational, unwilling to move forward, seeking not to lose instead of striving to succeed (Mt 25:24-25). Fear then grips and incapacitates us. We must take risks (Mt 25:30, Message). In the American Civil War, the Union commanders in the East were frequently unwilling to risk because they were paralyzed by fear. What Edmund Burke said was true of them: “No passion so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting and reasoning as fear.” They needed to look more at their own resources and what they could do to the Confederates. Grant ended up taking this view and it greatly contributed to Union success.
The Lord wants to deliver us from our fears (Ps 34:4). He wants us to take risks about what his will for us is (Acts 16:6-10). We need to give it our best guess then proceed. Even when we make mistakes, it will not be disastrous because He will sustain us (Ps 37:23-24). Moreover, He will be pleased because we acted in faith – and actions based in faith please Him (Heb 11:6; Rom 14:23). Love for the Lord, for others, and for what is right is the antidote for fear (1 Jn 4:18; Heb 1:9). Recognizing that our loving Lord is with us keeps us from fear (Isa 41:10). We will never be completely free from fear in this life because it is only perfect love that eliminates all fear (1 Jn 4:18).
We may avoid enriching commitments because they are costly.
We need to increasingly be delivered from error, unnecessary evil, and the evil one.
by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
A ‘hopeless’ spouse doesn’t mean a hopeless marriage. Have you ever felt hopeless about your marriage improving because it seems that your spouse is unwilling to change? You don’t think your marriage can get better because you believe your spouse is hopelessly unwilling to change – and you assume that their changing is necessary for marital improvement to begin. That assumption is wrong.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Daily Christian Living is set up to be a daily two-minute Bible study on one of over 275 topics about how to live the Christian life. It includes passage insights from about 50 translations, top commentaries or language aides, quotes, and stories from famous people. All this is geared to answer the question, ‘How then, should I live?’ In two short minutes, you learn great things from the Bible that many people don’t know with wonderful applications about how to live.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Have you ever wondered how to get the most out of your Bible reading? Do you want deeper insight into the meaning of the Lord’s Prayer? This book covers five key ways of interpreting the Bible that will enrich your understanding of it. Many other ways to better understand the Bible are explained in an appendix.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
God’s 40 hints are taken from the Old Testament book, The Song of Songs. The Song depicts the kind of marital lovemaking the Lord wants His saved couples to experience. By looking at the key characteristics of marital sex the couple in the Song displays, we can understand what to do to vastly improve our own marital lovemaking.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
It is so easy to be insensitive to the very many ways we are rude to our spouse. Jesus said that the key problem in marriage is hardness of heart (Mt 19:8). This book addresses the great need to recognize many of the ways we are rude and gives us ideas for how to display better manners toward our spouse. It is vital that we improve our manners in marriage. Small changes can eventually have great results.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Discover tools to answer many of the burning questions we all face each and everyday. It is not enough just to make a flippant decision on daily matters whether large or small. God has a specific plan for our life that involves listening to Him and making sound judgement.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
We know the enemy’s strategies for ruining our lives. He will attack our vulnerabilities, but if we can identify what those are and prepare ourselves, we may avoid ourselves and family through unnecessary pain and anguish.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Too many people live their lives in a very general manner - believing that as long as they do “good” things and try their best they are fulfilling God’s plan for their life. However, that is not how Jesus lived, and it is not how we should live either. We are to be directed by the Spirit on a day in, day out basis.
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Instead of being timid, learn to be appropriately bold.