“In war, anything is better than indecision. We must decide. If I am wrong, we shall soon find it out, and can do the other thing. But not to decide wastes both time and money, and may ruin everything” (Ulysses S. Grant). In our spiritual war with Satan, he will often try to get us to be indecisive (Gen 3:1; Mt 4:1-6). In the Bible, indecision can be viewed as a form of double-mindedness (Jas 1:6, 8). Continued indecisiveness, when a decision has already been made or needs to be made, is condemned by Christ (Lk 9:62).
At the battle of Midway in WWII, Admiral Nagumo, who had a carrier strike force of four large carriers, became indecisive when he learned that the Americans might have one carrier in a fleet his reconnaissance aircraft had sighted. Instead of promptly attacking the Americans, he ended up rearming his planes that had returned from Midway. This made his carriers vulnerable to attack. The Americans waited until the planes were being rearmed before attacking and the result was the sinking of 3 Japanese carriers. It changed the course of the war in the Pacific.
Sometimes, indecision can be an indirect tactic to let a more informed person make a decision for us. In other cases, indecision can be a way of shirking responsibility or trying to get out of doing something (1 Ki 18:21). It can be a form of passive-aggressive behavior or a way of buying time so we can get more information or await circumstantial changes. For the most part, indecision can have a devastating effect on our lives and the lives of those who may be affected by our decisions. Since God can bring good out of even the well-intentioned mistakes of His faithful children (Rom 8:28), we must risk making decisions (Ps 37:23-24).
We may avoid enriching commitments because they are costly.
We need to increasingly be delivered from error, unnecessary evil, and the evil one.
by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
A ‘hopeless’ spouse doesn’t mean a hopeless marriage. Have you ever felt hopeless about your marriage improving because it seems that your spouse is unwilling to change? You don’t think your marriage can get better because you believe your spouse is hopelessly unwilling to change – and you assume that their changing is necessary for marital improvement to begin. That assumption is wrong.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Daily Christian Living is set up to be a daily two-minute Bible study on one of over 275 topics about how to live the Christian life. It includes passage insights from about 50 translations, top commentaries or language aides, quotes, and stories from famous people. All this is geared to answer the question, ‘How then, should I live?’ In two short minutes, you learn great things from the Bible that many people don’t know with wonderful applications about how to live.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Have you ever wondered how to get the most out of your Bible reading? Do you want deeper insight into the meaning of the Lord’s Prayer? This book covers five key ways of interpreting the Bible that will enrich your understanding of it. Many other ways to better understand the Bible are explained in an appendix.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
God’s 40 hints are taken from the Old Testament book, The Song of Songs. The Song depicts the kind of marital lovemaking the Lord wants His saved couples to experience. By looking at the key characteristics of marital sex the couple in the Song displays, we can understand what to do to vastly improve our own marital lovemaking.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
It is so easy to be insensitive to the very many ways we are rude to our spouse. Jesus said that the key problem in marriage is hardness of heart (Mt 19:8). This book addresses the great need to recognize many of the ways we are rude and gives us ideas for how to display better manners toward our spouse. It is vital that we improve our manners in marriage. Small changes can eventually have great results.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Discover tools to answer many of the burning questions we all face each and everyday. It is not enough just to make a flippant decision on daily matters whether large or small. God has a specific plan for our life that involves listening to Him and making sound judgement.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
We know the enemy’s strategies for ruining our lives. He will attack our vulnerabilities, but if we can identify what those are and prepare ourselves, we may avoid ourselves and family through unnecessary pain and anguish.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Too many people live their lives in a very general manner - believing that as long as they do “good” things and try their best they are fulfilling God’s plan for their life. However, that is not how Jesus lived, and it is not how we should live either. We are to be directed by the Spirit on a day in, day out basis.
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Instead of being timid, learn to be appropriately bold.