“I have never understood why it should be considered derogatory to the Creator to suppose that he has a sense of humor” (William Inge). Humor is a form of play and involves laughter. God’s wisdom both plays and laughs with humans (Prov 8:30-31, NEB). According to Eccl 3:1-4, there is a time for laughter, play, and having fun (See CWSD #7832 for the word in Eccl 3:4). This would certainly seem to include humor. Furthermore, sarcasm and mockery are forms of humor. At 1 Ki 18:27, the prophet Elijah uses mocking humor and sarcasm to offer ideas as to why the false god, Baal, has not responded (Nelson, First and Second Kings, p 117 with Dilday, 1, 2 Kings, p 213). Elijah suggests that Baal may be asleep or in the process of defecating (Gray, 1 & 2 Kings, p 398). Jesus appeared to use the humor of exaggeration in places like Mt 7:4-5 and Mt 19:24. Similarly, the Lord had the funny details of the story at Acts 12:13-16 put into the New Testament.
Humor can be so very helpful. It does our own heart good (Prov 17:22). It can break the tension or embarrassment of a situation. It can preserve someone’s dignity or enable others to connect with us. We may seem more human. It can be a marvelous way to convey a criticism or contrary point of view. “Humor is the shock absorber of life; it helps us take the blows” (Peggy Noonan). Furthermore, humor may help us be humble since “all higher humor begins with ceasing to take oneself seriously” (Hermann Hesse).
Thank God for laughter and humor. If we would laugh more, if we would learn humor, let’s be around those who have a good sense of humor. It can be learned and is worth the effort. After all, aren’t we to seek to become more like the Lord?
We may avoid enriching commitments because they are costly.
We need to increasingly be delivered from error, unnecessary evil, and the evil one.
by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
A ‘hopeless’ spouse doesn’t mean a hopeless marriage. Have you ever felt hopeless about your marriage improving because it seems that your spouse is unwilling to change? You don’t think your marriage can get better because you believe your spouse is hopelessly unwilling to change – and you assume that their changing is necessary for marital improvement to begin. That assumption is wrong.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Daily Christian Living is set up to be a daily two-minute Bible study on one of over 275 topics about how to live the Christian life. It includes passage insights from about 50 translations, top commentaries or language aides, quotes, and stories from famous people. All this is geared to answer the question, ‘How then, should I live?’ In two short minutes, you learn great things from the Bible that many people don’t know with wonderful applications about how to live.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Have you ever wondered how to get the most out of your Bible reading? Do you want deeper insight into the meaning of the Lord’s Prayer? This book covers five key ways of interpreting the Bible that will enrich your understanding of it. Many other ways to better understand the Bible are explained in an appendix.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
God’s 40 hints are taken from the Old Testament book, The Song of Songs. The Song depicts the kind of marital lovemaking the Lord wants His saved couples to experience. By looking at the key characteristics of marital sex the couple in the Song displays, we can understand what to do to vastly improve our own marital lovemaking.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
It is so easy to be insensitive to the very many ways we are rude to our spouse. Jesus said that the key problem in marriage is hardness of heart (Mt 19:8). This book addresses the great need to recognize many of the ways we are rude and gives us ideas for how to display better manners toward our spouse. It is vital that we improve our manners in marriage. Small changes can eventually have great results.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Discover tools to answer many of the burning questions we all face each and everyday. It is not enough just to make a flippant decision on daily matters whether large or small. God has a specific plan for our life that involves listening to Him and making sound judgement.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
We know the enemy’s strategies for ruining our lives. He will attack our vulnerabilities, but if we can identify what those are and prepare ourselves, we may avoid ourselves and family through unnecessary pain and anguish.
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by Dr. Mark Avery Reed
Too many people live their lives in a very general manner - believing that as long as they do “good” things and try their best they are fulfilling God’s plan for their life. However, that is not how Jesus lived, and it is not how we should live either. We are to be directed by the Spirit on a day in, day out basis.
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Instead of being timid, learn to be appropriately bold.