Honestly, what normal person enjoys pain? Who wants to feel like they are drowning in chronic pain (Ps 88:17, EVD)? Who likes to cry all the time from sorrow? As a loving parent, do you really delight in your child undergoing pain? Doesn’t this seem less-than-good? Almost sadistic, in fact. So why does the Lord consider it His gift to us to let us suffer (Phil 1:29, BB)? Why does He make those who are dear to Him experience pain (Prov 3:12, BB)? After all, He could put an end to much of our pain but chooses not to do so. Why is this?
God did protect Jabez from unnecessary pain (1 Chron 4:9-10, CW). However, some pain is necessary if we would fulfil His purpose for us (Mt 16:25, LAB note). Indeed, those who have few troubles are said to be bound with the chains of pride (Ps 73:6, BB). Since the Lord opposes the proud (1 Pet 5:5), wanting to be free of all pain in this life is not a blessing but a self-centered addiction to our own comfort and pleasure (Amos 6:6, Message). Rather, pain develops character. “No pain, no gain.” In addition, pain can change us by helping us to cease doing what is wrong (Prov 20:30, EVD). We can express our faith as we are going through pain.
Maybe all this sounds unconvincing. Is pain really worth it? Consider this, however: both physical life and spiritual maturing are a result of pain (Gal 4:19). Pain can lead to what is good. Do we want to be a people who bring forth hope and life? If so, pain is the price we must pay and the privilege we must embrace.
Instead of being timid, learn to be appropriately bold.